May Birth Flower: Meaning, Gift Ideas, & Growing Guide
Do you never know what to give your loved ones with May birthdays in your life? Giving gifts that have the May birth flower are not only meaningful, but will make your loved ones feel special. As spring hits its stride, May arrives with blooming beauty. For those born in this month, Lily of the Valley is their special birth flower—a delicate, bell shaped flower with a deep history and meaningful symbolism. Whether you have a May birthday or simply love gardening, here’s everything you need to know about this small flower and how to grow it in your own backyard.
The Meaning Behind Lily of the Valley
The Lily of the Valley (Convallaria majalis) is known for its dainty white, bell-shaped flower. Though small in size, this flower carries rich symbolism:
- Purity and Humility – Its pristine white petals have long represented innocence and modesty.
- Return of Happiness – In the language of flowers, it conveys the return of joy and good luck. It’s often used in weddings and is considered a symbol of new beginnings.
- Sweetness and Motherhood – Its gentle presence makes it a favorite around Mother’s Day, also celebrated in May.
In folklore, it was said to protect gardens from evil spirits and was used in love potions—perhaps because of its sweet aroma and heartwarming symbolism.
How to Grow Lily of the Valley
Lily of the Valley is a resilient perennial that thrives in cool, shady gardens. It’s ideal for beginners and seasoned gardeners alike. Here’s how to grow it:
1. Choose the Right Spot
- Light: Prefers partial to full shade. It can handle some morning sun, but too much heat will scorch the leaves.
- Soil: Moist, well-draining soil rich in organic matter.
2. Planting
- When: Early spring or fall is best.
- How: Plant rhizomes 1-2 inches deep and about 4-6 inches apart. Point the growing tips upward.
- Watering: Keep the soil consistently moist, especially during the first season.
3. Care Tips
- Water: Regular watering, especially during dry spells.
- Mulching: Helps retain moisture and suppress weeds.
- Fertilizer: A balanced, slow-release fertilizer in early spring can boost growth.
4. Beware!
While beautiful, Lily of the Valley is toxic if ingested—keep it out of reach of children and pets.
May Birth Flower Fun Fact
Lily of the Valley was one of Princess Grace Kelly’s favorite flowers and featured prominently in her wedding bouquet. It’s also the national flower of Finland and is celebrated in France on May 1st, where it’s given as a token of good luck.
May Birth Flower Gift Ideas
Are you a May Birthday or have a loved one with a May birthday? I have come up with a few fun, beautiful and cute ideas to make your May birthdays feel special.
- Lily of the Valley necklace or jewelry
- Embroider a Lily of the Valley flower on an article of clothing or hat
- Sticker of a Lily of the Valley
- Lilly of the Valley bookmark- HERE
- Children’s book, one that I found is called The Truly Unusually Fairy Lily Valley
- Journal with Lily of The Valley on it
- The actual plant or seeds
- Lily of the Valley coloring book
Final Thoughts
The Lily of the Valley is more than just a pretty flower—it’s a timeless symbol of purity, renewal, and quiet strength. Easy to grow and lovely in shaded corners, it brings both fragrance and charm to any garden.
Whether you’re planting them for their meaning, beauty, or simply for the joy of watching them bloom, the Lily of the Valley is a true gem for May and beyond.
No matter what you do, enjoy this time of month, Happy Birthday to all of the May birthdays. I hope you feel special this time of year because you are a symbol of Purity, Happiness, and Sweetness. Also all of the birth flowers and gifts ideas are found HERE
Happy gardening, and may your May blooms bring you joy!
As always,
grow flowers to heal the soul
Beth
